What You Need to Know About Child Custody in California

Child custody matters can be sensitive, stressful, and confusing; it’s important to have a clear understanding of California’s child custody laws. Below we’ll answer some child custody FAQs in California.

When is it considered child abandonment of a noncustodial parent in California?

Under California law, child abandonment constitutes if a custodial parent leaves a child with a noncustodial parent for more than six months without making contact with the noncustodial parent or child.

When can a child refuse visitation with the non-custodial parent?

Children over the age of 16 can refuse to visit the noncustodial parent. The only exception to this is if there is a court order stating otherwise.

How can I get child custody from a narcissist?

It’s important to hone your communication skills. In child custody battles, narcissistic parents try to spin past situations in their favor; it important to clearly tell your side of the story and back up your claims with evidence.

Can I lose custody of my child for dating a felon?

If a judge feels that placing the child in your custody is not in the child’s best interest, then yes, you can possibly lose child custody for dating a felon.

Who has custody of a child if there is no court order?

Without an enforceable court order, both parents have legal custody of their child. Parents can agree to custody terms that they feel is in the child’s best interests.

How can a father get full custody of his child?

Technically, California courts cannot take the sex or gender of the parent into account when granting child custody. If the court finds that the mother is unfit to care for the child, then a judge can grant the child’s father full legal and physical custody.

Can a parent take a child out of state with joint custody?

For a parent with joint child custody wanting to take his child on a vacation out-of-state, permission is required from the other parent. If the parents cannot reach an agreement they can petition to the court and have a judge decide.

What kind of questions do you ask a narcissist in child custody?

During child custody battles, attorneys can cross-examine witnesses and parents to prove whether granting custody is in the child’s best interest. Asking your child’s parent pressing, straightforward, questions can reveal their true intentions and identity to a judge, arbitrator, or mediator.

What should you not say in child custody mediation?

During child custody mediation do not make the situation about your interests; keep the conversation about securing the child’s best interests. Do not make any emotionally-charged statements at the mediator, judge, arbitrator, or another parent. Do not try to intimidate or threaten the opposing party.

Will police enforce child custody?

Child custody orders are court orders, meaning they can be enforced by the police. However, police departments usually choose not to get involved in familial disputes unless they are violent.

How can a noncustodial parent get a child’s social security number?

A noncustodial parent can get a child’s social security number if they are on the birth certificate or by proving paternity.

How can a mother lose custody of her child in California?

Yes, in some cases, a mother can lose legal custody of her child. If a judge typically will not grant child custody to a mother if it is not in the child’s best interest.

At what age can a child stop visitation with a noncustodial parent?

Children over the age of 16 have the legal authority to refuse visitation with a noncustodial parent unless stated otherwise by a court order.

Can child support be stopped by a custodial parent?

Yes, child support can be ended by a custodial parent. In order to end or modify child support payments, a parent must petition a court order.

What do judges look for in child custody cases?

In California, judges determine child custody by examining what is in the child’s best interest. A judge may consider the following factors when determining the child’s best interest:

  • What the child wants (if the child is over the age of 12)
  • A history of domestic disputes, including violence and abuse (physical or psychological)
  • The parents’ history of substance abuse
  • The parents’ emotional and mental soundness

What happens to child support when a custodial parent goes to jail?

If a custodial parent goes to jail, he or she may still have to pay child support. Any income or assets the incarcerated parent may have can be legally used to fund child support.

Can noncustodial parent claim the child as a dependent if behind on child support?

Noncustodial parents can only claim children as dependents if custodial parents allow them to do so through a Form 8332.

How much does it cost to go to court for child custody in California?

Depending on your attorney’s rates, child custody battles in court can become pricey. Total fees from child custody matters depend on the length of your case and your attorney’s experience, among other factors.

How many times can you appeal a child custody case in California?

Technically there is no set amount of times one can appeal a child custody ruling, but appellate courts can take factors into account when granting an appeal.

Can I gain custody of a child that is not mine?

A non-parent can gain custody of a child by applying for guardianship or by consent of both parents. If both parents do not give written consent to non-parents, non-parents can file for non-parent custody.

How does child support work when you do 50/50 custody?

Child support and joint custody orders are not mutually exclusive. A judge can decree 50/50 child custody but still order one spouse to pay child support.

Can a minor have custody of a child?

No, under no circumstances can a minor gain legal custody of a child. If the father or mother are under the age of 18, temporary custody will be given to a guardian.

What happens at a pretrial conference for child custody?

At the pretrial conference, a judge sets legal deadlines, gets an understanding of the situation at hand, and may even order a child custody evaluation.

Can a noncustodial parent pick up a child from school?

Unless specifically approved by court order, a noncustodial parent must ask for permission from the custodial parent before picking up the child from school.

Do you pay child support with joint custody?

There are some joint custody situations in which child support is ordered. In these cases, the custodial parent with the higher income will pay child support.

Can a non-custodial parent get Medicaid for a child?

Yes, a non-custodial parent can get Medicaid for their child. California law is designed to protect a child’s welfare; if either parent can provide the child’s medical coverage they can legally do so.

Do you have to pay child support if you have joint custody?

There are some joint custody situations in which child support is ordered. In these cases, the custodial parent with the higher income will pay child support.

Who pays attorney fees in child custody cases?

In child custody cases, each parent typically pays their own legal fees. However, if one parent cannot afford legal representation, a judge can order that the higher-earning parent pay their attorney fees.

Can you get a court-appointed attorney for child custody?

Although child custody is a civil matter, parents can get a court-appointed attorney. If a parent cannot legal representation in court, the court may appoint a pro bono attorney to assist with the child custody case.

Does the custodial parent still need to pay child support if they move out of state?

Yes, custodial parents are obligated to pay child support if they move out of state. National law mandates that states must uphold out-of-state child support orders.

Does a felony affect child custody?

If a parent has a violent, criminal, or unstable history, a judge can prevent that parent from getting child custody. The judge will protect the child’s best interest.

What happens if a child refuses to return to a custodial parent?

A child that refuses to return to or visit a custodial parent can end up having the other parent be held in contempt of court. A custodial parent can file an Order to Show Cause petitioning that the parent should be held in contempt of court for not returning the child.

How can I get full custody of my child without going to court?

Through mediation or a simple discussion with your child’s parent, you can reach a child custody agreement. However, the judge must sign the child custody agreement for the order to be enforceable. If the order is not signed by a judge, it is almost pointless.

Can a child testify in a custody hearing?

Children under the age of 14 can testify at a custody hearing if the judge deems it appropriate and in the child’s best interest.

What happens if the custodial parent doesn’t show up for a child support hearing?

The court can issue a warrant for the custodial parent’s arrest if they fail to pay child support and do not attend the court hearing. Under certain circumstances, the arrest can lead to jail time.

What is an affidavit for child custody?

An affidavit is a legal document providing a notarized written statement, usually written under oath. In child custody cases, affidavits can be used as strong evidence to determine the child’s best interests.

Can a non-custodial parent claim a child on a tax return?

The only way for a noncustodial parent to claim the child on their taxes is if the custodial parent does not do so. If the custodial parent claims the child on their tax returns, then the noncustodial parent cannot do so. For more info, click here.

Can a noncustodial parent enroll a child in school?

The noncustodial parent can enroll the child in school if they have legal custody of the child. The child will typically go to the school nearest to their primary residence, whether that be with the custodial or noncustodial parent.

Can a noncustodial parent take a child out of state without permission?

For a parent with joint child custody wanting to take his child on a vacation out-of-state, permission is required from the other parent. If the parents cannot reach an agreement they can petition to the court and have a judge decide.

If the noncustodial parent does not get permission from the custodial parent before taking the child out of state, the noncustodial parent may be prosecuted for kidnapping.

Can text messages be used in court for child custody in California?

Yes, courts often use text messages as evidence in child custody cases. Text messages can serve as written proof of a parent’s behavior, ultimately helping to determine the child’s best interests.

At what age can a child make custody decisions in California?

Children must be over the age of 14 to make decisions related to child custody including stating a custodial preference. A judge may deem a child under the age of 14 the legal authority to make custody decisions if appropriate.

How much does it cost to file child custody papers in California?

In most California counties, filing child custody papers cost $65 if you have consulted a mediator before, and $40.00 if you have not consulted a mediator.

How much does a child custody lawyer cost?

Depending on your attorney’s rates, child custody battles in court can become pricey. Total attorney fees from child custody matters depend on the length of your case, your attorney’s experience, and other factors.

How is child custody determined in California?

The purpose of child custody is to ultimately serve the child’s best interests. A California judge will look at the following factors when determining your child’s best interests:

  • What the child wants (if the child is over the age of 12)
  • A history of domestic disputes, including violence and abuse (physical or psychological)
  • The parents’ history of substance abuse
  • The parents’ emotional and mental soundness

What age can a child decide not to visit a non-custodial parent in California?

A child must be over the age of 16 to refuse to visit a noncustodial parent.

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