Have you witnessed your boyfriend domestically abusing your child and are unsure of what to do? Here is all you need to know in case your boyfriend has hit your child.
If you or a loved one are in immediate danger, call the domestic violence hotline (800-799-7233) which is available twenty-four hours, seven days a week.
What is domestic abuse?
Abuse can be used to describe a wide array of violence. All forms of domestic violence can cause permanent harm. All incidents of controlling, coercive, or threatening behavior can be defined as domestic abuse. The abuse can be psychological, physical, sexual, financial, or emotional.
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How to file for a restraining order?
The first step after your boyfriend has harmed your child is to file for a restraining order against him to keep them away from you and your child. Here are the steps to filing a restraining order:
- Fill out the required court forms.
- File the filled-out court forms with the court.
- Serve the paperwork to the boyfriend (also known as the respondent).
- Prepare for the court hearing.
- Prepare speaking points and prepare for the questions the defense attorney may ask.
- Consult with an experienced attorney to help prepare for the hearing.
- Attend the hearing.
- If the judge issues a restraining order, then prepare the written order for the judge to sign. Review the document to ensure everything is correct and serve the respondent.
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What are the risks of not taking action against an allegedly abusive partner?
Serious harm may result from keeping one’s child in a dangerous environment. If a parent is not able to take their child out of the said environment, then the county can take action to remove the child from their custody.
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