Divorcing a partner may already be complicated and emotionally draining, but these feelings may be exacerbated when dealing with a sociopath. There are several key things to know about divorcing a sociopath, and the ways in which a person can protect themself during the divorce. Here’s everything you need to know about divorcing a sociopath in California.
What Defines a Person as a Sociopath?
Sociopathy, or antisocial personality disorder, is essentially a mental disorder in which a person consistently disregards the emotions of others as well as the regard for right and wrong. For more information on this disorder and examples of symptoms to look for, please visit here. Divorcing a sociopath may be a difficult experience, as they will not hesitate to manipulate you, intimate you, or make the situation even more emotionally draining.
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Key Things to Keep in Mind When Divorcing a Sociopath
First and foremost, it is incredibly important to hire an experienced attorney for this type of situation, as they will be beneficial and resourceful for the legal battle ahead. When divorcing a sociopath, one must remember that they do not have to face this journey alone. Divorcing a sociopath may entail dealing with intimidation, manipulation, and deception in several forms. Aside from verbal intimidation, a sociopath may threaten their spouse financially, emotionally, or through the safety of any shared children. Financially, sociopaths may attempt to gain an unfair and unreasonable advantage over financial issues. They may lie about their income and will more than likely disregard aspects of California’s divorce law.
Another serious issue that may arise when divorcing a sociopath is their disregard for court orders. As they inherently view other people and orders as something to disregard, they may refuse to respect and follow California laws and regulations. This may be evident with examples such as:
- Not paying child support on time or refusing to pay
- Disparaging their spouse or getting their children actively involved in child custody issues
- Consistently not following and violating a child custody and visitation schedule
- Refusing to follow custody orders put in place by the court, and instead insisting on what they want regardless
It is important to note that if a person willfully disobeys a court order or exhibits disorderly conduct in court, they will be held to California’s Contempt of Court Laws.
How to Protect Yourself During a Divorce with a Sociopath
There are multiple ways an individual can protect themself during a divorce with a sociopath. As mentioned earlier, hiring an experienced family law attorney is always beneficial. Other personal ways of preparing and protecting yourself for this divorce process may include:
- Arming yourself with knowledge about the court process and dealing with a sociopathic partner in court
- Identifying a support network or friends and family
- Documenting everything related to your case, such as text messages or voicemails
- California requires consent for a person’s conversation to be recorded
- Considering professional counseling services or a therapist for you or your children during this process
- Remembering to stay calm, as this will help safeguard your emotions from a sociopathic husband’s manipulation
FAQs About Divorcing a Sociopath in California
Am I allowed to modify court orders when divorcing a sociopath?
No. For things such as visitation or child support rights, it is best that each party follows the agreement already in place. If modifications are made, it may be easier for a sociopath to turn the situation into a positive for themselves and their case.
Related: How to Modify a Child Support Order in California
Is divorcing a sociopath the same thing as divorcing a psychopath?
No. There are a few key differences between the two, especially that sociopaths often act erratically and are more likely to violently manipulate those around them, while a psychopath tends to successfully charm or carefully coerce those around them.
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