Parents can make their own custody and visitation agreements. Here’s everything you need to know about child custody with no court order in California.

Parents can come up with their own agreements for child custody in California. That being said, having a court order allows a parent to be punished if he or she violates the agreement. Child custody with no court order versus with a court order can be similar in outcome if parents comply with a given set of rules. However, they can vary if a parent violates an agreement, as court orders are what allow punishment to ensue.

Are court orders necessary for parents to have child custody in California?

Court orders are not always necessary for parents to have child custody in California. In fact, parents typically make their own agreements regarding custody and visitation. An agreement made between two parents becomes binding and enforceable. However, if a parent does not follow the agreement, courts do not have the right to enforce such an agreement without it being a court order. Therefore, a custody agreement should be given to a judge so that either parent can enforce the agreement in case one parent violates a written rule. In most cases, judges will approve and sign agreements, making it a court order that is filed with the court clerk.

Related: How to Make a Child Visitation Schedule in California

How does visitation work when there is no court order?

Both parents have the same parental rights unless a court order states otherwise. Therefore, no one parent can prevent the other parent from having contact with their children, or prevent a parent from having certain visitation rights. That being said, this rule does not apply if domestic violence or any potential harm can be brought to the child by another parent. If this is the case, a parent is legally allowed to flee with their child so long as they inform the District Attorney’s Child Abduction Unit within ten days and complete certain paperwork in the Superior Court Clerk’s Office relating to this matter.

In certain cases without court orders, parents are legally allowed to ensure the child’s contact and visitation with the other parent is only done under supervision. This is usually done in cases where the child’s permanent residence is with one parent and not the other. Supervision allows the custodial parent to make sure that the non-custodial parent will not remove the child from the home. A parent that has physical custody of a child without concealment is allowed to retain the child before receiving an official court order.

Related: Supervised Visitation in California: What You Need to Know

What can a parent do if a child is being concealed from them without a court order?

If a child is being concealed from a parent without a court order, the parent must first fill out a police crime report (Penal Code Section 278.5) and then forward it to the District Attorney’s Child Abduction Unit. Next, the parent needs to initiate proceedings for the purpose of obtaining a court order.

If a parent is being allowed visitation with their child, but is not content with the situation, they need to initiate proceedings to obtain a court order. Next, it is important for the parent to maintain good records dealing with any visitation they have had.

Can court orders dealing with child custody be changed in California?

Child custody court orders can be changed in California. Court orders are typically modified when one or both parents are dissatisfied with part or all of the agreement. If both parents seek the same changes, judges will approve a new custody order that satisfies both parents. If only one parent refuses to agree on what the custody or visitation order should consist of, that parent can complete certain paperwork and request a court hearing to prove to the judge that the changes they seek are necessary and valid. Most circumstances involve both parents meeting with a mediator to discuss the reason behind a court order needing to be changed.

Related: How to Modify Child Custody in California

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